Word for Today: Turn your loss into gain

Perhaps you’ve heard the story of the guy who went to the doctor with a severe burn on his right ear.

He explained,

‘I was ironing and watching television when the phone rang, and I picked up the iron instead of the phone.’

Puzzled, the doctor said,

‘But how did you get the burn on your left ear?’

The man exclaimed,

‘Because he called back!’

Bottom line: when you’ve been ‘burned’ by someone, be careful about putting yourself in a position to be burned over and over again.

Forgiveness must be immediate, but trust must be earned.

Your offender must show the fruit of repentance – consistent behaviour that gives evidence that he or she has had a change of heart.

Jesus said, ‘Prove by the way you live that you have repented of your sins and turned to God’ (Matthew 3:8 NLT).

You need two things: grace and wisdom.

Grace means extending to others the same forgiveness that God has extended to you.

Wisdom means knowing what kind of relationship you can have with that person in the future.