*If you want to know the real character of a leader, watch out how they
treat people they don’t need. People are always nice to people they expect
things from. It takes character and commitment to deal with conflicts and
people the right way*. – Femi Adediran, October 2015

*You can’t be a great leader without having somebody you can talk to,
somebody you can be honest and be true to, saying; “this is who I am”,
somebody with whom you can be transparent and honest. If you have three
confidants in a life time, you have done really well *- Femi Adediran,
October 2015

*If you can get a few people to be there for you, you don’t need everybody
in the whole wide world to be there for you. Avoid personal attitude in a
professional situation *- Femi Adediran, October 2015

*As a leader you must be able to rejoice always when people come to you and
when they leave you. You must understand that people come and go. You must
be able to cope with people leaving *- Femi Adediran, October 2015

Greatest Lemacites,

If you want to know the real character of a leader, watch out how they
treat people they don’t need. People are always nice to people they expect
things from

It takes character and commitment to deal with conflicts and people the
right way

TEAM BUILDING

Team building is critical to great leadership

In team building, you need three very important relationships, viz;
Confidants, constituents and comrades

CONFIDANTS

Great leaders have confidant

You can’t be a great leader without having somebody you can talk to,
somebody you can be honest and be true to, saying; “this is who I am”,
somebody with whom you can be transparent and honest. If you have three
confidants in a life time, you have done really well

Your confidants are with you in all situations, when you go up and when you
come down, when things are good and when things are bad, when you are the
star and when nobody remembers you

There is no pressure to impress your confidant, you can be beside yourself
before your confidant, you don’t even need to look great before your
confidant

The real reason you are tired of people around you is because you want to
relax, you are never tired of a confidant because you can relax in their
presence

Your confidant is only committed to you and not to your assignment. Your
confidant is with you because of you not because of your assignment.
Confidant is about your relationship not your assignment

CONSTITUENTS

This relationship is because of your assignment

Your constituents are primarily with you because of the assignment and not
you

Confidant and constituent do same thing but for different reason…it’s about
you or about the assignment

You must be able to work with people who come and go…Constituents come and
go

Don’t get bitter over people who leave you

As a leader you must be able to rejoice always when people come to you and
when they leave you. You must understand that people come and go

You must be able to cope with people leaving

If you can get a few people to be there for you, you don’t need everybody
in the whole wide world to be there for you. Avoid personal attitude in a
professional situation

COMRADES

Comrades are here to help. Comrades help you to fight perceived common
enemies if only to get the enemy out of the way

The Pharisees and the Sadducees had to come together to fight a common
enemy: JESUS.

You need each team member to get to the next level however

You are a leader called for such a time like this

Do what is in your heart and Spirit now…Take the Lead…Be Daring!

Nice weekend, friends

Best,
Femi Adediran
DOS/DSA, Lemac world wide
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